Friday, December 19, 2008

Endless Amounts of Amusement

So if you've never heard my comments on my husband's lack of communication about family events, you'll here them now. I love my husband- but when it comes to family functions, he is very unable to keep me in the loop. I've started to try to just leave him out of it- but that doesn't always work. For example Christmas Day. We made plans to have his whole family over on Saturday- yes I've been running around like a chicken w/ it's head cut off all week- and on Christmas Eve my parents are coming over. So on Christmas Day, I was under the impression that we didn't have plans. So I started making plans to spend it w/ his mom. And I was very vocal about these plans. I told Aaron every step of the plan making what we were doing, when, and what we were bringing... And I just assumed (you would think I had learned by now...) that he was aware that Christmas Day was being spent w/ his mother! So last night, I was vacuuming... and I stopped for a minute to move some stuff and I here him on the phone- "No, we don't have any plans for Christmas Day... Yes, we'll be there!" I about had a heart attack!! I just stood there looking at him, trying to interrupt, knowing if I did he'd be mad. So I held my tongue until after he got off the phone. And said "UM We are going to your mom's for Christmas!" Apparently, before I'd made plans (that he was fully aware of) with his mom, he'd told his uncle we'd go to ANTHEM for Christmas with them! OMG! To make a long story not as long, He texted me this morning and we're going to his mom's only (thank God). I wish he'd communicated with me earlier about the Smith family thing- but then, he's not perfect! And the Christmas Cirrcus begins! :) I love it!

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